What an absolutely delightful opportunity I had this past weekend. I was asked to be the guest speaker at a cowboy church in Saint Clair County, Alabama. Though I have heard of cowboy churches, I had never been to a cowboy church.
The tables were adorned with cowgirl boots used as vases to display beautiful live flowers. There were sequined cowgirl hats and sparkly western clothes worn by many. The after party on Friday night was filled with food, laughter, and line dancing. The whole weekend was packed with fun, chatter, and God-encounters.
As we were sitting around the lunch tables, an announcement was made that a horse was outside and anyone who wanted to ride the gorgeous, gentle animal was invited to step out into the warm sunshine and enjoy a ride.
My daughter-in-law Kelly and her mother were at the conference. I encouraged Kelly to go out and ride the horse and send pictures and videos for her sons to see. All of a sudden Kelly’s mother said, “I want to ride the horse.” I thought to myself, “Are you sure about that? I mean we are not spring chickens anymore.” She was firm in her resolve to go ride the horse.
As we stepped outside, Kelly’s mother walked over to the horse, ready to ride. The owner of the horse was there to guide her in mounting the animal. As she stepped up to the horse, I said to Kelly, “Let’s get behind her just in case she starts to fall. That way we can support her.”
We stood behind Sharon, ready to support her if needed. She threw her leg up over the horse and successfully mounted. The owner then guided her around the area. Sharon grinned all the way. I loved seeing her successful ride. Sharon’s success was a wonderful experience for all of us who were by her side.
Everyone needs other people by their side. It is always a blessing to have people around us, who have faith in us, who will assist us as we venture out for God – people who stand ready to catch us if we feel ourselves slipping as we try new things – people who will say, “You can do this!”
I am sure there have been times when you wished someone would walk beside you, someone who would understand and help you. While each of us must take our own unique journey, I think the Bible clearly teaches that we are to walk with others.
I am not sure we fully appreciate the power of encouragement as we walk alongside others. It often is a powerful experience for them and you. Kelly and I both smiled when we saw the smile on her mom’s face.
The Bible tells us, “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11. Do not minimize the gift of being an encourager. I have had some great cheerleaders who have helped me as I have walked with God, even when I failed and needed someone to catch me.
Never have I heard someone complain, “I have been encouraged too much. I just wish people would stop encouraging me so much.”
Today, let’s spread encouragement in a very discouraging world. Say it everywhere you go today. With a smile on your face, look at that server and say, “You’re doing a great job!” Look at your pastor or pastor’s spouse and let the words pour out, “Thank you for all your ministry! You are a blessing to the Kingdom of God.” Look at your friend and proclaim, “Keep it up, you got this!”
So many are suffocating in this negative world. Be an encourager – it is oxygen for the spirit.