
I have never heard a sermon or a teacher speak about a little-known woman in scripture. I find it fascinating to study lesser-known characters in the Bible. One of those characters was a woman named Lydia. Lydia is only mentioned in three verses of scripture.
“One of them was Lydia from Thyatira, a merchant of expensive purple cloth, who worshiped God. As she listened to us, the Lord opened her heart, and she accepted what Paul was saying. She and her household were baptized, and she asked us to be her guests. “If you agree that I am a true believer in the Lord,” she said, “come and stay at my home.” And she urged us until we agreed.” – Acts 16:14-15 NLT; “After leaving the prison they went to Lydia’s home, and when they had seen and encouraged the brothers and sisters there, they departed.” – Acts 16:40.
Three little verses, yet she was a woman who made a tremendous impact for the Kingdom of God. She was seemingly unimportant, as far as the space Lydia took up in scripture, but she was very important to the Kingdom of God and the spreading of the Gospel. The brevity of her story is a stark contrast to the significant impact she made.
The Bible tells us that Lydia was from Thyatira, and she was a highly successful businesswoman. Lydia was a seller of purple cloth. Purple cloth was very expensive and bought only by the wealthy. So, think of Lydia as having one of those expensive shops in town. As a result of her success in the business world, Lydia became a woman of means. It appears she was able to have a nice, somewhat large home.
Shortly after Timothy joined Paul’s missionary team, Paul received a vision of a man, begging him: “Come over to Macedonia and help us” (Acts 16:9). So, Paul took his team, and they set out on the long journey. Read Acts sixteen and it will help you to understand the setting.
On the Sabbath, Paul and his team went to the river to find a place for prayer. The term “place of prayer” typically referred to a synagogue, but no synagogue had been established, since it required ten men. Instead, the women would gather at the river to pray.
Lydia was by the river that day, and the Bible says that she opened her heart to Paul’s message. She was one of their first converts. Lydia then invited Paul’s team to stay at her home, and she would not take no for an answer! Paul often established a homebase when he went to a new town, and Lydia’s house became that, so much so that he returned there with Silas after they came out of prison.
After meeting Jesus Christ, Lydia was set ablaze with a vision to further the Gospel. Though she might not have seemed like an ideal candidate to plant a church, through her God established a house congregation whose influence echoes through the rest of the New Testament and beyond.
Lydia was not a gifted preacher. She was not known as one who was used to perform great miracles. What was her gift that God used to help in the evangelization of the city? Hospitality. She simply opened her home for the sake of the Gospel.
People with the gift of hospitality know how to make others feel welcome, comfortable, and special. They create welcoming gathering spaces. They plan, prepare, and serve delicious food. But most of all, they know how to make people feel welcome and loved.
Over the years, I have led a number of small groups in homes. Those homes were made possible by “Lydias” in my church. They were people who wanted to invite friends and neighbors to hear the Gospel presented and the scripture taught. Their gift made way for my gift. One was not more important than the other. Both were used by the Holy Spirit.
Lydia was just your average, busy, working mother. What did she have to offer? Her gift of hospitality. We do not know whether Lydia’s house was immaculate or whether there were dishes to wash, laundry to put away and furniture to dust. Maybe it did not seem like a big deal to Lydia to open her home. But it was a big deal to Heaven and the furtherance of the Kingdom of God.
What are you doing to further the Kingdom of God? It was not Lydia’s home but her heart that was important. Her faith led to her eagerness to serve. How is your heart? Are you eager to serve others? Maybe you’re a great hostess like Lydia, maybe not. But like Lydia, we all have gifts. What are you good at? How can you use it to help others or to build the church?
Your gifts and God’s mission go hand in hand. Your calling is what God has put on your heart as a way to serve Him, and the way you use your gifts is putting into action that calling in serving others and building up the Body of Christ.
Make time for an intentional prayer time with God this week. Seek Him and talk to Him about the ways He has gifted you. Ask Him how He wants you to use your gifts to serve Him and others. We can all further the Kingdom.


